Having spent time in a public school i know exactly what you are referring to. Keeping in mind the developing gay culture of the country, i dont think such a testosterone fueled environment, as that of public schools can be called "gay". But there is the most confusing part, how can you date boys, not come off as feminine, be "the guy" of your buddy's group and be gay or not be gay.

How can gayism be defined? What are its defining paradigms? Is it about some contemporary rebellious culture? Is it about about the desire to bang or get banged by a guy? Is it about having feminine attitude? Or is it just about our very own the good old love.

These are the questions i have always struggled with!!!